If you put the friendship first above your interest in dating her as a girlfriend, you are in serious risk of being relegated to the “friend zone,” which is a difficult place to escape from.My advice to you is to get together with her and talk in person.
People are not usually pulling an elaborate scheme in their interactions, and if you can pull back a little bit, you can usually figure out if she’s interested/bored/practicing dating but hasn’t made up her mind about you.
It does take a little while to let the emotional relationship between a couple of people develop, regardless of their long-term dating/friendship trajectory.
There’s a lot of dating-gray-area, and while a lot of people blame the internet (“She texted me one but I don’t know if we’re still hanging out on Wednesday!
” “She winked at me, but didn’t respond to my message!
She could still have thoughts or hopes for the relationship she just left, or she might be waiting for you to make a move.
She may still be in the healing process, and she may not be ready to be seen publicly with another guy yet.
Have you ever been in a situation where you like a girl more than she likes you?
Let’s break down some of the concepts behind this ghastly situation and what causes it. However, John doesn’t really say anything about it and gets nervous at the thought of telling Jennifer.
This is the guy who is always calling, texting and trying to please his woman without letting her please him back. For example, if you barely met a girl and you are already telling her you love her, you may be going too fast. Observe what phase you are at with her and match your behavior to that. Even if you do everything right, you have to be comfortable and content with yourself first before being able to fix the issue of an imbalance in your liking her more than she likes you.
If you guys are in the casual dating phase, it may be best to keep it casual. Many times your degree of liking someone can be linked to your degree of feeling a lack within yourself.
” “We have two friends in common on Facebook, but I don’t know if she’ll think it’s creepy if I say hi!