If you want to marry your bf but your to scared to have to care for your future kids liek his parents do to his sister, then marry him, but wait to have kids, have fun with your bf, go on vacations, go do things together, then when your ready have a baby.
I miss him but I m worried that he doesn t miss me and that he s pushed the memory of me aside because he s...
I miss him but I m worried that he doesn t miss me and that he s pushed the memory of me aside because he s having so much fun away with his friends. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years and we text every day and see each other at least once a week.
I don't want to waste my time with someone who doesn't see me in his future, I'm kind of getting to that age now; especially if we have been together for this long. Hopefully after two years you are comfortable enough to just come out with it.
I mean we talk on the phone everyday, if I need anything he's there for me, I'm cool with his family and he's cool with mine, but I just don't know the signs of if he's serious or not. We've had our share of arguments (about his female friends, my male friends, and etc.) so I'm kind of scared that may have had a negative impact on our relationship. You need to sit down and have a talk about what the two of you are thinking about. "Look, I've been doing some thinking and need to know if we are both heading in the same direction with our relationship.
I feel like this because I m not sure if he takes me for granted sometimes and I ve told him this and he said he ll try more but that was before he went away. He has recently just left to go over seas and we are going to have no contact for 2 weeks.
I miss him but I m worried that he doesn t miss me and that he s pushed the memory of me aside because he s having so much fun away with his friends. Even as far as future goes, he never says "us" its always "I." For example, when I get older me and my wife will get blah blah blah, its never like making plans for the future... \ I basically want to hear just some of his plans to include me, marriage is not anything I want for a couple of years but I would just think we would be able to include me just a tad in his plans... Hi my boyfriend sounded very much like yours even after 2 years with him, it was very frustating for me, I didn't know where we stood, then suddenly the truth came out he said we were friends...I don't know, maybe am I asking to hear too much to early and should have more patience or is clear to see that I'm just a phase and not what he wants in his future. I can imagine exactly how you feel, its not fair on us I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years, and I just don't know how to figure out whether he's serious or not. She refuses to try to go out and have a normal life. I can see your point, you want to have a life with out the threat of having to take care of his sister the rest of her life should you guys marry. His sister became paralyzed after a suicide attempt. I know his parents wont be able to care for her forever. Im so over it just seeing her makes my stomach turn.The message given to them is you must stick together even if you’re not having any kind of intimacy. So the rest of this reply focuses on how you might address things together.